{"id":300,"date":"2010-11-25T20:12:00","date_gmt":"2010-11-25T20:12:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/joapen.com\/blog\/2010\/11\/25\/sad-times-for-lack-of-assertiveness\/"},"modified":"2010-11-25T20:12:00","modified_gmt":"2010-11-25T20:12:00","slug":"sad-times-for-lack-of-assertiveness","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/joapen.com\/blog\/2010\/11\/25\/sad-times-for-lack-of-assertiveness\/","title":{"rendered":"Sad times for lack of assertiveness"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"separator\" style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/2.bp.blogspot.com\/_FHKXh6Fis30\/TO1yk9Z4cgI\/AAAAAAAABdo\/6OTJ1Yi_ZPw\/s1600\/sad.jpg\" imageanchor=\"1\" style=\"clear: right; cssfloat: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;\"><img decoding=\"async\" border=\"0\" ox=\"true\" src=\"http:\/\/2.bp.blogspot.com\/_FHKXh6Fis30\/TO1yk9Z4cgI\/AAAAAAAABdo\/6OTJ1Yi_ZPw\/s1600\/sad.jpg\" \/><\/a><\/div>\n<p>In your work environment you have 2 things you take care:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>The <strong><u>goals<\/u><\/strong> related to the work you do,<\/li>\n<li>and the <strong><u>relationships<\/u><\/strong> you establish with people.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>These 2 aspects walk in different directions and sometimes is complex to reach a good balance.<\/p>\n<p>If your behaviour is so <u>aggressive<\/u>, you will walk through your goals but late or soon you will miss the relationships.<\/p>\n<p>In case you you would be so <u>submissive<\/u> you will have a lot friends in the office, but you will not reach any goal.<\/p>\n<p>In the middle: <u>assertiveness<\/u>, something we have to implement everyday.<\/p>\n<p>Someone missed the existence of this balance some weeks ago and I have lost what I thought it was a good friend.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m very sad about this reason.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>In your work environment you have 2 things you take care: The goals related to the work you do, and the relationships you establish with people. 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