In your work environment you have 2 things you take care:
- The goals related to the work you do,
- and the relationships you establish with people.
These 2 aspects walk in different directions and sometimes is complex to reach a good balance.
If your behaviour is so aggressive, you will walk through your goals but late or soon you will miss the relationships.
In case you you would be so submissive you will have a lot friends in the office, but you will not reach any goal.
In the middle: assertiveness , something we have to implement everyday.
Someone missed the existence of this balance some weeks ago and I have lost what I thought it was a good friend.
I’m very sad about this reason.